Hard Things...

You must learn to do hard things....

To rise up early to pray...
To rise up early to meditate...

To write the first chapter of that book....
To take the first step out of that toxic relationship...

To delete that number...
To call that person....

To heal that hurt...
To confront that mountain....

To enroll for that programme...
To learn that skill...

Change is hard...
Forgiveness is hard...
Growth is hard....
The courage to do hard things is the initiation rite for growth!

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